Gifting Etiquette For Babies (and New Parents)
Baby gifts are really meant for three people, so you should rethink your choices a couple of times before you give a gift to an expecting couple. Even if your actual recipient won’t have any qualms with your gift, the parents may not be so lenient. The parents may not like the color combinations or knitting of the sweater, or the child could choke on dangling or easily detachable parts. There’s bound to be faults in your gift, but you only need to ensure these pass the parent’s scrutiny. You can never really tell by their reactions if they don’t like your gift. This will only be confirmed if you never see it again and the parents try to avoid references to it. It could’ve been dumped into a box of sundries and stashed away in the attic. While there’s a certain measure of luck involved in finding the perfect baby gift, you can still ensure yours is better appreciated with a few foolproof measures.
You should be relieved if the parents subscribed to a baby gift registry, because the decisions are made for you. You already have a list of preferences to choose from, and you only need to select and customize one of these. Enlisting baby gifts on a registry is the parents’ discreet way of telling you they don’t want duplicates. The slots are limited so it’s best to fill your preference as early as you can. If you’re allowed to freely choose gifts according to your preferences, then you should make sure the gift accurately describes your role in the recipient’s (the baby, not the parents) life. If you’re not an adopted godparent, then it’s best to choose gifts that wouldn’t outshine the godparents’ gifts. You should also be discreet with the gift. Don’t be cheap or extravagant if you don’t want to step on other people’s toes (especially the parents of your recipient). The best way to cozy up to your recipients’ favor is to keep your gift personal. Although cost does factor into the gift’s value, the time you’ll invest to ensure the gift is personal will determine how it’ll be appreciated.
You can offer your personal services as a gift, especially if you want it to stand out among the staple varieties of baby clothes and nursing kits. Time is a commodity for new parents, and your few hours of service will be indispensable. You could give “time coupons” that the parents can redeem at their own discretion. The gesture will put your commitment to the test, though, so make sure you’ll step up once they collect. Baby gifts come in a variety of ways, and you can present the perfect gift if you pledge time instead of money. If it’s a discreet and personal item, then your recipient may even become attached to it.
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